Nollywood singer and politician Banky W has stated that anyone who feels uneasy about his wife, actress Adesua Etomi-Wellington, cooking at home is free to voice their thoughts.
Speaking on the Teju Baby Face Show, Banky W revealed this.
He said, “There are some men, my wife must cook for me. My wife does not really cook, which she can cook very well, but it’s not her thing.
“See the way God works, right? I enjoy cooking and I love eating and she loves eating. And it just means that if you come to our house, there are some people that will come and see me cooking and they’ll be like, ah, what’s going on. It will make some people uncomfortable but it works for us.
“And I think that’s the thing that people in marriage need to understand, is like what works for you will be different from somebody else. So don’t live your life by somebody else’s expectations or rules.”
He added, “In our journey to having children, I’ve seen her endure things that would break people. I’ve seen her when we were trying to have Hezekiah and we were going through IVF cycle after IVF cycle and it wasn’t working and she would get back on her feet and inject herself with whatever they said. I’ve seen her put herself through. So is it now that I now say cooking is hard?
“It’s easy to give those acts of service when you have a wife like this.”
Ultimately, every marriage is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. Different approaches, roles, and routines can all lead to a happy and harmonious relationship. The key is finding what suits both partners best and respecting each other’s perspectives.
After all, love and understanding are what truly make a marriage thrive.
